Being Human 4.13 Review: “There Goes The Neighborhood Part III”

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Saying goodbye isn’t easy, especially on Being Human. “There Goes The Neighborhood Part III” was hell bent on making that clear.

I’ve grappled with how to write this final review for a show that I’ve been with for four years, a show that’s truly been very close to my heart. We watch television for different reasons but mainly to escape… and connect. We see ourselves in these characters. They say things we cannot, sometimes do the things we have. The connection is perhaps not always literal or direct, but through them we live, grow and learn.

Being Human came into my life at a weird time. I was just beginning to experience my adulthood and independence. To be in reach of my aspirations. But after a sudden turn of events and a psychological diagnosis I felt like I had lost it all. As if I had literally been split in two. There was the person that I knew and was. Then there was the person that I had become. I feared this new person and as a result (I thought I) couldn’t control them. The prognosis left me with the reality that everyday for the rest of my life I was going to have to fight to not be this version of myself.

To avoid losing control or doing things I’d ultimately regret, I was going to have to be brutally honest with myself. At all times. It’s something many spend their entire lives failing to do — avoiding. I didn’t have that luxury. Lying to myself could cost me more than just my my conscious. I had to change the way I lived, move into this weird “safe mode” so that other part of me wouldn’t break the surface. There is no cure, but “management” is key they say. That’s the kicker though. Even when I knew what I had to do I also knew that I wasn’t always going to do it. There would be times when I slipped, a chance for everything I was afraid of to happen.

This is an experience I shared with the roommates of that Boston brownstone. I might not have killed anyone, but even with the greatest intentions my mistakes still certainly hurt people, especially those I cared about. At a time where I was just beginning to know who I was (and when I also refused to accept the entire reality of that), these characters were here. Their stories, desires and struggles resonated with me deeply. I felt like I wasn’t alone.

I believe that Being Human spent four years showing us the worst parts of ourselves, and in a finale that could have easily been an emotional and physical massacre the series chose to close out on a complete examination of the human experience. It decided to give its characters and viewers one of life’s most basic, beautiful, and hopeful lessons. As a well known sci-fi podcast once touched on, each decision we make is like a drop of wax. It’s something that can be molded however we desire.

Our ultimate choice makes it solid, concrete, unchanging. Sometimes after we’ve made that choice we realize it wasn’t the one we wanted. We realize we’ve made a mistake, but that’s the thing with decisions and time. Once they are made they can’t be changed. So some of us spend our lives regretting all those choices we made, living in the past but never moving forward. Ruminating on what could have been.

This makes us forget one very vital thing: this moment now is too a drop of wax. Every minute we spend beating ourselves up over something we cannot change we avoid changing what we can. We miss being the person that we want to be. “There Goes The Neighborhood Part III” saw Sally, Josh, Nora, and Aidan realizing this very thing. They didn’t have to be defined by all those drops of wax that had come before. Yes, they were solid, but this moment wasn’t. Here and now we can decide what comes next.

Within the first ten minutes we watched Sally sacrifice herself to save her friends, their lives and consciences. What we thought was her demise was actually her reward. Sally giving her life to destroy the compulsion Aidan was under was her last bit of unresolved business. In this moment she chose not to be defined by her past, but by her love for her friends, her appreciation for life, and by her final decision on this plane. Ramona has a fit about this, but Josh, Nora and Aidan manage to make it out.

With that our favorite werewolf couple have to decide what their future is going to be. They slowly work their way back into a normal human rhythm and grapple with the reality of a family. Being out of control and allowing our fear to run us isn’t an option with a baby. Josh and Nora must accept who he is, what they are, and realize that not taking chances or not going for it does not protect us from slip ups. There will always be chances to make mistakes whether we hide away or not. Accepting who we are makes it so some outside force can’t run us. We aren’t at the mercy of the universe. We are at the wheel at every turn. We decide what happens next.

With Sally’s sacrifice Aidan gets a true second chance. He is once again human, can taste food and get hypothermia. However, the two most human parts about him even when he was a 200 year old vampire (the guilt and fear of death) don’t leave with his literal monster. We know that what Sally gave him was a gift, but we see that there’s also a balance to the universe. Aidan’s two decades of living catch up to him. Suddenly he only has a week left to live.

Like the other characters Aidan had pure shining moments throughout the series, but he was also perhaps the most infuriating in his falls. The finale was his true pinnacle when we see him willing to give up the humanity Sally offered because his guilt and fears overtake him. The thought was blood pressure elevating, but in his moment of breakdown we see how the weight of what we’ve done can bring us down. How we can be our own demise if we allow it.

Josh is there to pull him out while Ramona is there to remind him of some unfinished business. After another death in the house, Aidan and Josh agree to handle Ramona once and for all. But Aidan pulls a “A Funny Thing Happened On The Way To Me Killing You” move, taking on Ramona single-handedly. This is his moment of reckoning. Just when Ramona thinks she’s got the upper hand — pushing Aidan down the stairs and leaving his body to lay in Sally’s former death spot — he gives his life to end the cycle of hurt. By stopping Ramona he resets his own cycle of death and pain.

When Josh and Nora arrive at the house they are greeted by its chard ruins and a ghostly Aidan. Here and now everyone is ready to move on, but for Aidan moving on means his door. As he says goodbye and walks through we see the girl with the heart of gold again. Sally is waiting for him on the other side. The series ends with Josh and Nora visiting their former roommates in a heaven of sorts. In this way and in these moments they are together. In the series last images, we see Josh and Nora now have two children, who they’ve named after their friends.

Being Human ended its run on a heartrendingly beautiful note. Through four seasons we watched the ins and outs of what it means to actually be human. Life is just as much about the people that we meet, the places we build, and the ways we grow as it is about our stumbling. The good and the bad work in tandem, not against each other. They remind us why we fight, why we endure. With a finale that could have gone — and be received — in a number of ways, I’m glad that this is how the series will be remembered. I’m glad to have gone on this healing journey with them.

[Photo via Syfy]

Abbey is a Cleveland based writer and college student working on her undergraduate degree in Liberal Arts. Television is her second language and fangirl is her alter ego. Abbey is adamantly against shows going beyond 6 seasons, and has a photographic memory when it comes to network schedules. She spends her free time reading ya fiction, podcasting on genre shows, and reblogging 'pretty' gifsets.
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  • suzyque

    Really lovely finale. I was a little upset that the Sally stuff got short shrift, but you point out something that I missed when watching it (Sam Witwer later tweeted about too): Sally’s gave up her door in season 1 to save Aidan, and that changed her mission. Which is why she couldn’t get her door until she completed it.

    • Abbey White

      I should start by saying that Sally Malik is my favorite character and for four years I believe she was one of the best written female characters television had to offer. Even as someone who enjoyed the romantic development between Sally and Aidan, after seeing the finale I appreciate perhaps more than others the show not developing it sooner. I do feel like Sally has been her own character with her own issues and triumphs, never relegated to a love interest nor did she have motivations/development undermined for a male character. For this reason her absence in the finale was noticeable and should be addressed. So I agree with you. There certainly should have been more of her, even if it was just everyone “feeling” her presence like Aidan at the bar.

      With that said, I think most of us view finales as these giant statements about each character. A way to address every major plot line. I don’t know if you watched “How I Met Your Mother” but I feel like Being Human and HIMYM had very similar final seasons. HIMYM really messed their finale up by undermining over 20 episodes worth of development and the entire premise of the show. Being Human in my opinion used the season wrap up concept more effectively. Episodes 1-12 weren’t building to the finale. They were a part of a giant 13 week finale.

      Unlike Aidan, I think the other three characters had their turning points earlier in the season. I believe that for Nora it came in 4.07 when she decided to leave Josh because she couldn’t risk putting herself in another dangerous relationship that could cost her her life. That’s not love or family. I feel like for Sally her turning point started at the end of 4.08 after she died in the alternate timeline. She had to face fate and learn to stop trying to change things (for herself and other people). She wasn’t supposed to linger, but she did and in doing so it changed her trajectory. In her time with the roommates her life grew to be far more than what it was while alive. She just didn’t realize it. For Josh it was last week when he learns to stop running from himself and accept who he is.

      The finale was Aidan heavy and I believe it was for that reason. “There Goes The Neighbhorhood: Part III” was about finishing everyone’s storylines. Aidan’s just took a bit more time to get there. Sally, Josh and Nora’s big developments had already come. Now is everyone going to agree with that narrative decision? Probably not. But I know this show knows its characters. I know that it has always had a particular pacing for its arcs and this season for me has felt like they were packing a lot in (close to two seasons worth of material). The hope was that it would result in a solid ending. I think don’t think the entire season was executed 100% perfectly along the way (Season 3 was a pretty masterful triump tbh). Ultimately though, it did a nice good job with the time it had and gave me what I had wanted for Sally all along (to not be trapped here).

      • suzyque

        I agree with you about Season 3 being the best executed. I assumed that the pacing issues I had with this season were because they only found out it would be the last halfway through, so I was surprised by Sam Witwer’s Buzzfeed interview yesterday in which he said they knew before the season started. It makes me wonder why we spent so much time in the early episodes investing in Kat and Suzanna, and why all the Ramona/Saidan stuff felt so rushed.
        That being said, I liked how everyone got their big moment to confront/overcome their deepest fears this season, and of course the finale had to center around Aidan as he was the central character and the one with the most to overcome.

        • Abbey White

          Yeah, Sam has talked a lot about Season 4 and how that happened. I’ve been reading his stuff since the announcement. What I gleaned was that they had planned for five seasons and ended up with four. That AU timeline was the season split for me.

          I’m glad they spent time on Kat and Suzanna. I’ve even voiced concerns about whether enough time was spent on them because of how previous seasons have paced and developed. I think it was just that they had all these plans and then had to deal with said reality.

          For me this show has really been on point and a shining example of how to manage a 13 episode season for 3 years. Whatever pacing issues I had with Season 4 I’ve decided to not hold against them. I know what they were up against. I’m also glad that this season allowed the show to get out from under the shadow of the UK version as well.

          Thank you for your comments and reading! I appreciate hearing the opinions of fellow fans.

  • Jade

    Great finale and a great review. I was beside myself. I honestly had no words when it ended. I was so happy it got the ending it deserved but so sad it’s over. Sally has been my favorite character from the beginning, and I just knew she had a bigger purpose than just being a ghost. One of the moments that really got me was when we first saw Aidan as a ghost, because it was just so weird. The thought of him dying is so odd to me, because as a vampire he was supposed to live forever right? The part when Aidan saw Sally on the other side, it made me so happy, I couldn’t stop smiling, but I was also very sad because the four of them couldn’t be together as a family. And the ending, when we find of Nora and Josh named their kids after Sally and Aidan.. Oh man. That part got me. Right in the feelings. I had my brother watching it with me (he’s never seen the show) and all he could say was wow.. I really enjoyed this show, and seeing all of the characters develop into the people they became. I’m sad to see them go, but if they must, this ending was a perfect way for them to say goodbye.